Blaming.

this idea came across my mind this afternoon. blame. why do people blame others? will they feel better when there's an excuse for their mistakes? will they feel relief because they had pull themselves off? i have no idea, but i did feel bad about this friend.

he did quite bad for certain subjects and might need to retake it. so he seem to blame us. blame us for dragging him to hang out when he had quiz on the next day. blame us for letting him very busy and cannot focus on his studies. fine then. but the day we drag him out was his birthday! we just wanted him to have a memorable day, and we did not intend to let him do badly in his quiz?! excuse me?!!

i wasn't feeling well this afternoon, so i just keep quiet when he was complaining. okie, u win, u r the best, u should sit on the holy seat and everyone should greet u POLITELY, everyone will do everything good for u.

i am so pissed off! hey he put all the blame on us! had he thought of himself? the main reason he cannot score well is only personal factor, not the environmental factor! he reminds me what i learned in gen psy. attribution error: people seems to blame their failure on the external factors and grab their success as their own capability.

if he studied earlier, and did not burn mid night oil, can he score well in his quiz?

if he did badly for the certain quiz, can he study even harder for the coming quiz and exams?

if he really concentrate when he was studying, but not dividing his attention in games and other things, will he be able to pass the subject?

the first day of my 3rd sem drove me crazy, friends? i sneer. and this is what we call friends. and i got stupid assignment on the first day in algebra class. u know what we suppose to do? we havta measure the shortest distance from subang to penang, and label all the landmarks along the road. what is this? geography? just because we might have a cycling trip from subang to penang doesn't mean we havta do this right? this is not our job AT ALL! grrr...

hopefully my mood will get better tomorrow. i think im suffering from severe headaches recently, havta go for medical check.